BDSM Safety in Practice

Dominance is not about fulfilling desires. It is about responsibility.
And sometimes, the greatest responsibility begins with the word "NO."

At the beginning, there is silence. Tension. Eyes meet.
In the next second – something unexpected. Spitting. Straight into the face. Or into the mouth. Or onto bare skin that was trembling with excitement just a moment ago.
It's raw. Animalistic. Intense.

In the world of BDSM, where working with the body often goes beneath the surface, the standard notion of cleanliness is no longer sufficient. Disinfecting hands and tools is essential—but if you're using instruments that penetrate the body, come into contact with mucous membranes, or breach the skin, you must consider sterilization according to...

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Why Sterility Isn't Enough – And How Not to Turn a Needle Into a Weapon

For many, BDSM is not only a form of self-expression or a way to fulfill specific desires, but also a refuge from a burdensome reality. In some cases, it can act as a path to healing and self-acceptance. In others, however, it may deepen old wounds or even create new ones.
So how can we tell when BDSM is helping – and when it's harming?...

When a name, ego, or surface image can't replace true authority.

The world of BDSM offers a space for safely exploring boundaries and fantasies. But just like any other intimate activity, BDSM is subject to legal regulations. Ignorance of the law is no excuse—and in some cases, it can lead to serious consequences.

This article addresses the issue of boundaries in BDSM relationships, where devotion can easily turn into a loss of self. Special attention is given to phenomena such as financial domination and emotional blackmail, which can lead to abuse of power. At the same time, it analyzes situations in which submissive partners unknowingly exhaust their...