Many people ask me what impact public promotion of LGBTQ+ with elements of BDSM, which are otherwise categorized as 18+, can have on minors, and how to prevent it. The question is valid because it concerns children, their development, and their psychological stability.
It is right for children to know that there are different forms of human...

You twist open the cap and smell the sharp chemical bite. You inhale. Within seconds, your body relaxes, your head spins, warmth spreads under your skin. The effect is fast, short, tempting.

Dominance is not about fulfilling desires. It is about responsibility.
And sometimes, the greatest responsibility begins with the word "NO."

At the beginning, there is silence. Tension. Eyes meet.
In the next second – something unexpected. Spitting. Straight into the face. Or into the mouth. Or onto bare skin that was trembling with excitement just a moment ago.
It's raw. Animalistic. Intense.

In the world of BDSM, where working with the body often goes beneath the surface, the standard notion of cleanliness is no longer sufficient. Disinfecting hands and tools is essential—but if you're using instruments that penetrate the body, come into contact with mucous membranes, or breach the skin, you must consider sterilization according to...

Subdrop, Dissociation, Trauma Triggers, and Anxiety Attacks in the Context of Needle Play

How Conscious Risk Transforms BDSM into a Responsible Ritual

Why Sterility Isn't Enough – And How Not to Turn a Needle Into a Weapon

For many, BDSM is not only a form of self-expression or a way to fulfill specific desires, but also a refuge from a burdensome reality. In some cases, it can act as a path to healing and self-acceptance. In others, however, it may deepen old wounds or even create new ones.
So how can we tell when BDSM is helping – and when it's harming?...

When a name, ego, or surface image can't replace true authority.