About Us | SafetyKink
BDSM, Medicine, and Cybersecurity in the Service of Your Safety, Trust, and Knowledge.
We Are Iris and Alex
Two women who combined their professional expertise, life experiences, and humanity to create SafetyKink – a place where expert BDSM education, risk prevention, and privacy protection come together as one cohesive system.
Because the world of BDSM deserves more than just rules – it deserves new standards.
Who Are We?
🩺 Iris – Visionary and Architect of Safety
With over 20 years of experience in the BDSM community and a professional background in healthcare, including work in surgical theaters and emergency rooms.
She is a trained medical professional, an expert in medical aspects of BDSM practice, and her passion lies in clinical BDSM, breathplay, electroplay, and other techniques that demand maximum expertise and precision.
With a university degree in cybersecurity, she not only protects your body but also your data and identity.
Additionally, her knowledge and experience in law enable her to provide comprehensive support not only in safety but also in legal protection.
👉 Iris develops new BDSM safety methodologies, pushing the community into the 21st century.
Her style? Precision, systematization, and a visionary approach that sets new standards.
💡 Alex – The Soul of the Project and Intuitive Guide
Alex is what gives SafetyKink its heart and humanity. Her natural empathy and ability to understand others' emotions make her the ideal guide through the world of BDSM, where trust, respect, and psychological safety are essential t.
She has years of experience in physiotherapy, combining anatomical and physiological knowledge with a deep understanding of psychology and the dynamics of the human mind.
Her long-term D/s relationships give her a unique perspective on the dynamics of dominance and submission. What others merely study, Alex lives and experiences, bringing harmony between body, mind, and emotion.
She knows how to translate professional knowledge into practice, creating a space of safety and trust where everyone can find their place.
👉 It's Alex who makes SafetyKink more than just a project – she gives it soul, calm, and human depth.
Her style? Intuition, calm strength, and the ability to connect the world of emotions with the world of science.
"Beyond every boundary we cross in BDSM, trust must be stronger than any knot. We are building a world where desire does not harm, and where safety is not just a word but an action. We protect your body, mind, and identity because we know that courage begins where there is the assurance that someone will catch you when you let go of the brakes."
Why Was SafetyKink Created?
Because we felt that BDSM education was stagnating while risks were increasing.
Because SSC and RACK are not enough – it's time to develop more comprehensive standards that include not only physical safety but also psychological balance and digital protection.
Because we believe that BDSM is about more than just practices – it's about trust, consent, and respect that must work on all levels.
Our Values
❤️ Empathy – We hear what you say and understand what you feel.
🛡️ Safety – Physical, psychological, digital. No compromises.
📚 Education – We share facts, not myths.
🤝 Humanity – We are here to help. We do not judge. We do not look down on anyone.
⚖️ Respect for the Law – We protect not only your mind and body but also your rights.
Why Us?
Because Iris builds strong foundations and sets the system, while Alex brings life, soul, and relational balance.
Together, we form a team that guides you, protects you, and opens the door to safer and more conscious BDSM.